How to work with everyone

How to work with everyone

I love it when someone inspires me, a book, a speech, a recording, a film, a documentary. This time I was inspired by Arnold Schwarzenegger in his new documentary. An extraordinary film, an extraordinary story, an extraordinary man. I recommend all three parts!

In his documentary Arnold Schwarzenegger, at the end of the last part, he talks about how every human being can work with every human being on this planet.

I quote his words from the film: “I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS IDEA OF LOOKING AT SOMEONE AS IF THEY ARE YOUR ENEMY, BECAUSE I CAN GET ALONG WITH ANYONE AND I TRY TO FIND A WAY TO WORK WITH THEM. DON'T WE ALL WANT TO BE LOVED AND TO PASS ON LOVE. OVER THE YEARS THIS THOUGHT HAS COME MORE AND MORE TO THE FOREFRONT OF MY MIND. “ says Arnold Schwarzenegger.

I believe that there may be many people in your lives with whom you have no common ground, you are not a vibrational couple, but they have come your way and cooperation with them is inevitable at this moment. And sometimes this is a nightmare for you, in the morning when you wake up you see this weight, this challenge in front of you. Maybe it's someone you work with, or your supervisor, or someone in your family. The fact is that at that moment there is no alternative but to engage with it. You always have a choice, if you cannot choose who to work with at the moment, you can choose how you feel about it.

What can you do?

HELP

MAN AS YOU - first of all, every morning or when you meet this person, observe him, look at him, with the thought in your mind that he is just a human being. Imagine that you are together in the Stone Age, at the very beginning of humanity, when there is no one to influence you, only you and this person. You are both innocent as children playing together and discovering the world.

WHAT THIS PERSON HAS LEARNED TO THIS DAY - now think about the person and their parents, how they played when they were little, the attention they got at home, the love they were offered, the way they talked to them. Was she allowed to express emotions, anger, sadness, was this person allowed to cry.

WHAT IS HAPPENING IN THIS PERSON'S LIFE TODAY - as you observe this person, think about whether this person is happy with his or her life right now, is healthy, is happy in his or her marriage, is financially well provided for, is feeling deprived, is bitter.

When one is on a high vibration, or simply put, pleased with oneself, it will be seen from afar, the right energy will be felt, understanding will be felt even in the face of disagreement. When one is on the other shore, this too is felt at very close quarters.

What can you do?

YOU TAKE THE FIRST STEPS

GIVE FOCUS TO YOURSELF - the first rule is that you can't change anyone, only yourself, so if you are working with someone you don't like at first sight, the only solution is to start working intensively on yourself.

GIVE HER SPACE - above all, give her space, i.e. don't pry, don't ask questions, don't force her to do things she is not capable of delivering, above all, listen to her.

LOVE HER AND LET HER GO - I know this is strange to hear if you are not used to doing this. But try it, just kidding. For one week, every morning before you brush your teeth, look in the mirror and say out loud 5 times. Person ... I bless you with love and I release you.

And so you will be able to work with just about any person who comes your way.