Why Louise Hay has a special place in my heart

My life before Louise Hay → My life after Louise Hay

I blamed others → I take responsibility for everything that happens in my life

Before I discovered the wisdom of Louise Hay, I always blamed others for the challenges in my life. Whether it was my husband, my parents, my friends or even my children, I often pointed the finger when things didn't go my way. Looking back, I can't say why I did it, but I did. I felt temporary relief, but in the long run it was not the case.

An example from my life:
In my early years, when my children were still small, I often blamed my ex-husband for how I felt. He was at work long hours every day and in my eyes he seemed a disinterested father. I sought temporary solace from my friends. However, I did not take the responsibility to change anything. I spoke to him about it, but now I understand that he was unable to do otherwise. Today I realise that, like me, he too struggled with his limitations. Another important factor was that deep down I did not believe that I deserved something more.
Today, thanks to the teachings of Louise Hay, I know that I deserve freedom and respect. I take full responsibility for my life and say out loud what I want and where my limits are. This is my life, and I choose to be the captain of my own ship. When I make a mistake, I see it as an opportunity to grow and learn. Louise Hay's philosophy has really changed my world view and encouraged me to shape my own destiny.

I always wanted to change others → I realised I could only change myself

I used to long for the ability to change others, but I realised a profound truth within myself: I can only change myself. This realisation was a turning point in my life. I realised that the key was to focus on personal growth and to stop trying to change others. I had waited too long for others to change, I truly believed that their transformation of me would lead to changes in my own life.

An example from my life:
The similarity between my father and me is great. We share a passion for work, an active lifestyle and a love of spending time with friends. We also share the same ambitious nature. However, when we have spent time together, we have found it challenging to communicate effectively. We both have strong temperaments and a tendency to believe that we are always right, which has led to many heated arguments in the past.
However, when I started to focus on my personal development, I also started to see my father differently. Wanting to understand him better, I started researching his past, talking to my mother about his childhood and his relationships with his parents and siblings. This new understanding has allowed me to accept him as he is today. This does not mean that I am silent when I disagree with him. It means that I have started to talk to him in a calmer way and, more importantly, I have learned to empathise with him and accept his point of view. And in doing so, I allowed myself that it is ok to have a different opinion.
The result of this transformation is that I am now focusing on my own life, while he is doing the same. We are both adult individuals who respect each other's individuality and choices. This respect allows us to live our own lives and maintain a loving and understanding relationship.
In other words, we don't interfere with each other :).

If I change my mind → I can change my life

A core tenet of Louise Hay's philosophy is the powerful idea that changing our minds can actually lead to transformative changes in our lives. This fundamental principle resonates strongly with me and is undoubtedly true. Our thoughts are often a struggle with fears, ego and inner dialogue, they have the potential to become our greatest adversaries, but only we have the ability to tame them. Although this journey takes time and patience, there is a reward waiting for us at the finish line.

An example from my life:
I used to be convinced that I was not a good mother because I am ambitious, I love to work and I have a strong desire to have a successful career. When my children were younger, I neglected my own needs and freedom, and so I thought I was not born to be just a mother. The first step I took was to admit and accept these feelings. I accepted the truth that I did not want to be just a mother; I valued my children, but I also valued myself because I realised that I only had one life and I did not want to live it just for them.
As I turned my attention to personal growth and fulfilment, my relationship with my children blossomed. I realised that I could be a great role model for them and I learned that actions are more powerful than words, especially when it comes to teenagers.
I started to see the bigger picture and changed my way of thinking from always saying I was not a motherly type of person to becoming the mother I wanted to be for my children - and I started to enjoy motherhood. This shift in my thinking brought a deep sense of fulfilment in my role as a mother.

I sincerely invite you to read Louise Hay's book “Life is yours”.” Whether you read it for the first time or rediscover its wisdom, you will find that Louise Hay's teachings can really make a positive difference in your life.
My path has grown tremendously since I came across her philosophy, and I am convinced that she can offer you the same.

Happy birthday, LOUISE!

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